My Boyfriend Is Too Rough In The Bedroom

My boyfriend is far too randy for me. He wants
lots of hot s*x every night, and he goes at it fast
and furious. Sometimes we go on for hours and I
end up sore and exhausted. It may sound like I'm
the luckiest woman on earth, but too much of
everything is bad and I'm getting bored and
upset by it all— to the point where I don't look
forward to s*x with him.
How can I tell him I don't want rough s*x all the
time?
- A lady who is engaged sent this to Aunty
Bunmi. Read her reply to her below:
The earlier you told him the truth the better for
your relationship. It is not possible to keep doing
something you don't want. Your body and mind
will eventually say no, plus he might only be
doing it every night because he thinks you enjoy
it.
He may actually be forcing himself to go on for
hours to keep you happy. In which case
explaining how you feel will be a relief to both of
you.
So, reassure him that it is not the quality of the
s*x that puts you off, it is the quantity. It is not
what he's doing. It's how often he does it. But tell
him with love and humility.